PaReNtS, pArEnTs, Parents.....!!!!!!!!l

simple definition: simple couple who by bringing you to this world,

are given the right to be judge and jury the planet and the whole solar system ,

to watch,control and direct you according to their rules


Resulting situation :people (parents)from the middle age with rules from theprehistori stone age ;i say prehistoric
coz they're inherited from your grandparents ,who have in turn inherited them from their parents
who are your great grandparents,Added to those rules ,their own experience and life experiments and so on and so force!
which are all according to their point of view of course ,and on a playground of the present modern age


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So what do u think???!!!!will we be those parents???...i hope not actually
i thought many times of how can any couple married be good parents,
by our modern open minded points of view (that i don't know them all yet)


to know the answer i managed to observe my parent's way in raising their children (my sisters and prother)
and any other parents in our family ,neighbors or in the street(sometimes on the TV too)

and the results were amazing actually coz i just got a very great HEADACHE without understanding any thing
i just was feeling like i want to leave home to any uninhabited island
(that kind that not found on any map or even heared about )
but of course we shouldn't solve our proplems by running a way

so i decided to stay hehehehe.....


i think they never thought of the proper way they'll raise their young on before bringing them to earth
they just let them live and eat ,eat ,eat and of course sleep(3ashan yekbaro)
but forgot every thing about their way of thinking and broadening their minds
or making them acquire skills
they just realize it when any child do something wrong they just yell
on his face not to do that again (but he still didn't know what exactly the wrong thing he did!!!)
they didn't explain any thing thinking that he's still young and wont get it ,he just has to know how to obey them now ,then he'll understand later and that's totally wrong ,in fact he can get every thing since the minute he born

after 4 or 5 years they suddenly discover that he's not an intelligent or unsocial kide or not well raised
but also they don't solve it reasonably, and the boy becomes stubborn too
that's some of what i discovered and their are lots of notes too but i just can't count them all
but i have some words for EBN KHALDON the great Arabian sociologist -the establisher of sociology indeed

his words summarize it all actually he says:****

"من كان مرباه بالعسف و القهر من المتعلمين ,حمله على الكذب و الخبث , و هو التظاهر بغير ما فى ضميره خوفا من انبساط الأيدى بالقهر عليه , و علمه المكر و الخديعة

لذلك و صارت له هذه عادة و خلقا و فسدت معانى الأنسانية التى له من حيث الأجتماع و التمدن و هى الحميه و المدافعة عن نفسه و منزله و صار عيالا على غيره فى ذلك , بل و كسلت نفسه عن اكتسابالفضائل و الخلق الجميل
فينبغى للمعلم فى متعلمه , و الوالد فى ولده ألايستبدا عليهما فى التأديبط
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i don't think i can say any thing after these words


ThInGs PaReNtS AlWaYs SaY


oh your doing the washing up!!!!are you feeling alright??!!

(i was ,but i came over all peaky when i heard that sarcastic comment.

Maybe i'd better go and have a lie-down instead)

don't come running to me if you fall off these heels and break your leg
(i won't be able to come running to u coz i'll be in casualty

and it'll be u who has to come and bring me home!)


stop cring or i'll give u something to cry about
(i've already got enough to cry about thats why i'm crying )

you're not going out dressed like that under my roof!!
(Errr, i'm not under your roof ,i'm on my way out ,actually)

you're so spoilt

(i blame the parents) ****


****extracted from teen stuff magazine

****my words
****كتاب النصوص بتاع سلمى